Who is your ideal self? What does he/she look like?
Hello, my name is Victoria Brown and my ideal self looks like me. Ok let me explain a little more… My ideal self is someone who helps others. Someone who goes out of her way to make the people around her smile even if only for a brief moment.
My ideal self is someone who loves with all that she is and all that she has. She’s someone that cares for others even when those people hurt her. She forgives, and gives many chances and often gets hurt. But she is fiercely loyal and protective especially when those she loves are threatened or hurt.
My ideal self is strong, not physically but mentally and emotionally. She has an inner strength that many admire. She’s brave and not afraid to speak up when she doesn’t agree with something. She’s smart and not afraid to go after what she wants. When she puts her mind to something she doesn’t let anything get in the way.
My ideal self is a fierce and protective momma bear that will do anything for her babies. She’ll move hell and earth to make them happy. She loves them more than she thought she could ever love another. She loves to experience their firsts with them and feels like crying when she misses out. But mostly she enjoys showing them what it means to truly be loved, for she never wants them to ever be lacking in that area.
My ideal self is all of these things and more. I may be working on becoming all of these things but not for myself. I want to be all of this for my kids. I want to be able to put a roof over their heads and food on the table and still spend quality time with them. I never want them to feel like I don’t put them first because I always will.
My ideal self is the person I see when I look into the mirror each morning. Medium length blonde hair. Dark brown eyes, sometimes with a distant and sad look, and sometimes with a bright eyed and wistful glow. I am average height, bustier in the chest than most, with a slim waist. I love the way I look and the way I feel. I am not perfect, no one is. I have made many mistakes in my life but I have also learned from each of my mistakes.
My ideal self isn't perfect, makes mistakes, loves fiercely, is loyal, independent, stubborn, strong, brave, smart, and so much more. All of these things make up my ideal me and I am beyond happy with who I am on the inside and the outside.
None of us are perfect but we all have the potential to be the best versions of ourselves not only for ourselves but for those around us as well. We can let others define who we are, whether that's tearing us down or building us up. Or we can set our own course and be whoever it is we choose to be. So I ask, Who is your ideal self? What does he/she look like?
